
My partner Nehanda and I, we have a guiding mantra: make love with life. Sometimes we want to have sex with life. It is much more than having a delicious sex life. How much more? We have decided to invite you, on our journey. Join us! Lets make love with life.
First let’s talk about Sex. Let’s talk about making love.
I want to address men in particular. For me great sex is about taking control. Most women love it when the man takes control. First and foremost we have to take control of our own sexuality. What does that mean?
Like everyone, growing up, I had no clue. The subject of sex is one of the most obscure in all societies. The male having no clue is particularly destructive. His orgasm, normally accompanied by an ejaculation, is generally too quick, way out of synch with the female and generally puts an end to it.
Understanding and experiencing my sexuality without ejaculation was like a holy grail to me. It allowed me to control my energy, to play with it, to slow down, to finding pleasure everywhere in my body.
Most importantly it allowed me to make space for my partner. A space that allowed her to feel at ease, to trust and both of us to expand and explore and experience a truly mindblowing wonderland of sex, pleasure and intimacy.
It begins with what I call “Inner Kung Fu”; to connect with, to sense, experience, activate and channel sexual energy. Imagine a vibrationally loaded form of what you may know as Chi and Jing in Chinese medicine.
This is not something new or obscure. It is fundamental to many martial arts, in particular the Chinese sort. In fact, most cultures/spiritual/religious belief systems recognize the practice in some form, but hide it from “commoners” and outsiders.
Kept secret not because it’s a sin. Of course not. But because deemed too powerful to trust common folk or your enemies. Well, the secret is no longer; ironically through a mighty effort to hide it.
The Chinese Dao is the one major spiritual tradition that has openly spilled its secrets. During the past half century one particular Master of the Dao, Chia and his devotees have produced an extensive public library of teachings on the subject, accessible to anyone.
Most interesting of all, the practice is really simple and is is not a believe system, or a story you have to “believe” in. It is an experience anyone can have; and you really should. Who doesn’t want to have better sex.
The experience of this reaches far beyond sex. Like anything new and unusual, it may strike you as a little unusual at first. Yet, it comes natural to most, as it should. Some may need a little help taking the first steps. Beyond that it is as simple as riding a bike and merely a matter of application and exploration. Your partner will be eternally grateful. Guaranteed!
I am experiencing sexual energy as the most powerful and alchemically magical force in the universe, the source of healing, of rejuvenation, of creativity, of physical power; creation in the broadest sense of the word. I have retired from my matrix life in finance, free to share my gifts and experiences.